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5 Don’ts When you are Dealing With Your Children

August 3, 2018 By admin

 

Would any parent get into bad parenting?  No!  Well, that is what it appears to be apparently but in effect, parents are getting more and more involved into bad parenting.

As a parent each one of us is extremely ambitious to give the society a well mannered, well educated individual who will make a good name for himself as well as for his parents.  Most importantly the struggle is to get a good name for ourselves.  But do we at all in the first place think of how we were as children?  Were our parents really as strict with us as we are now with our children?

In this struggle to make the child an ideal person in every sense, parents are committing a series of mistakes that are leaving an indelible mark in the tender minds.  What are these mistakes that parents are continuously committing?

 

5 Don’ts When you are Dealing With Your Children | Wellness Hub

 

  1. Is your child lying to you in numerous instances?

If you have detected this recently, then ponder as to why he is doing so.  Take some time out and retrospect.  You must have overreacted to the mistakes that he has committed in the past.  So, in order to avert your anger the child is choosing an easy way out…telling you lies and getting away with the situation.  Now, you ascertain for yourself if it is to be encouraged or discouraged. 

Adolescence: Why The Challenge Of Parenting Is At Its Peak?

August 3, 2018 By admin

 

Adolescence: Why The Challenge Of Parenting Is At Its Peak | Wellness Hub

 

Parenting practices generally have three main goals.

  • First is to ensure the safety and the health of the child.
  • Second is to prepare the child for future life and,
  • Third is to ensure that as an adult he transmits good cultural values.

A superior quality relationship between the children and parents is extremely essential in order to achieve the above mentioned goals.

Why is the challenge of parenting at its peak?

During the development span of a child, it is the adolescence or the teen years that pose great challenge to both the parents alike.  There is a huge confusion because there are numerous hormonal changes setting in and the world around them is becoming even more complex.  The children themselves are confused and unable to understand their own feelings and parent’s feelings too.

As a result, the children feel easily irritated, angry and lonely too when they are accosted with such complicated issues of growth and development.  There are issues about peers, drugs, identity, sexual behavior and many more.  They no longer are interested in responding to parental authority.

Parents too are perplexed because their earlier parenting methods are no longer working now.  The parents are also in a helpless situation and often end up in arguments with their child regarding the choices that he is making in life. 

Parenting in the Most Challenging Years of a Child’s Growth: The Adolescence

July 3, 2016 By admin

Parenting practices generally have three main goals. First is to ensure the safety and the health of the child. Second is to prepare the child for future life and third is to ensure that as an adult he transmits good cultural values.

A superior quality relationship between the children and parents is extremely essential in order to achieve the above mentioned goals.

During the development span of a child, it is the adolescence or the teen years that pose great challenge to both the parents alike. There is a huge confusion because there are numerous hormonal changes going on and the world around them is becoming even more complex. The children themselves are confused and unable to understand their own feelings and parent’s feelings too.

As a result, the children feel easily irritated, angry and lonely too when they are accosted with such complicated issues of growth and development. There are issues about peers, drugs, identity, sexual behavior and many more. They no longer are interested in responding to parental authority.

Parents too are perplexed because their earlier parenting methods are no longer working now. The parents are also in a helpless situation and often end up in arguments with their child regarding the choices that he is making in life. Hence, the teenager ends up becoming the focal point of conflicts at home.

Here are the areas that conflicts between parents and adolescents generally arise:

  • Time spent with family vs.

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