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Written by: Rajini Darugupally, M.Sc., Speech-Language Pathologist
Clinical focus: Child speech, language development, early communication, parent guida<\/em>nce<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Worried because your baby is not pointing, waving, copying sounds, or imitating actions yet? These early communication skills matter because they help children share attention, learn words, connect with people, and build social understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But one missed skill does not automatically mean something is wrong. Some babies develop gestures, sounds, and imitation at different speeds. What matters is the full pattern: your child\u2019s age, response to name, gestures, eye contact, sounds, play, imitation, and whether skills are improving over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This guide explains what many babies do between 12 and 24 months, which signs deserve a closer look, simple activities you can try at home, and when to speak with a pediatrician, speech therapist, or child development specialist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For a broader age-wise view, you can also check our developmental milestones chart<\/a><\/strong> to track speech, movement, play, and social skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Many Babies Do Between 12 and 24 Months<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Developmental milestones are not a strict test. They are general signs that help parents and professionals notice how a child is learning, communicating, moving, and connecting. CDC describes milestones as skills most children, around 75% or more, can do by a certain age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Between the ages of 12 and 24 months, toddlers typically start hitting some exciting communication milestones. These early skills lay the foundation for speech, social interaction, and learning. Of course, every child moves at their own pace , but here\u2019s a general idea of what you might expect during this stage:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Age Range<\/th>Many Babies May<\/th>Why It Matters<\/th>Ask for Help If\u2026<\/th><\/tr><\/thead>
Around 12 months<\/td>Wave bye-bye, play simple games like pat-a-cake, respond to familiar words, use sounds like mama or dada<\/td>Shows early social communication and understanding<\/td>Your baby does not wave, respond to familiar interaction, or loses skills<\/td><\/tr>
Around 16\u201318 months<\/td>Try a few words, follow simple one-step directions, point to show something interesting, copy simple actions<\/td>Shows growing language, imitation, and shared attention<\/td>Your child is not using words, not pointing to share interest, or not copying actions<\/td><\/tr>
Around 18\u201324 months<\/td>Use more gestures, imitate actions, understand simple routines, begin combining communication with sounds or words<\/td>Builds the foundation for speech, play, and social learning<\/td>Your child has limited gestures, limited imitation, little social interest, or slow progress<\/td><\/tr>
Any age<\/td>Keep gaining skills over time<\/td>Steady progress matters more than perfection<\/td>Your child loses words, gestures, eye contact, play skills, or social interest<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Responding to Their Name<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

By around 12 months, most babies turn their head, smile, or look toward you when you call their name. It shows they recognize you\u2019re talking to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pointing to Show Interest<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pointing is one of the first ways toddlers share their thoughts without words. They might point to a favorite toy, a dog outside, or something they want you to notice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Waving, Clapping, and Other Simple Gestures<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gestures like waving “bye-bye,” clapping hands, or blowing kisses usually start to appear. These little actions are important signs that your child is connecting and communicating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Using Simple Words<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

By 18 months, many toddlers can say a few simple words like “mama,” “dada,” “ball,” or “bye.” They may not be perfectly clear yet \u2014 that\u2019s completely okay!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Following Basic Instructions<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simple directions like “come here,” “give me the ball,” or “sit down” can often be understood and followed by toddlers in this age range.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imitating Sounds and Actions<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your child might try copying the sounds you make, clap when you clap, or mimic funny faces. Imitation is a huge building block for learning speech and social skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read More: My 3-Year-Old Only Uses Gestures \u2013 Is It a Speech Delay?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When to Ask for Help: Red Flags for Pointing, Imitation, and Early Communication<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to remember that every child develops at their own pace, but certain early signs can help parents know when it might be a good idea to seek a little extra support. Early action doesn\u2019t mean something is \u201cwrong\u201d \u2014 it simply means giving your child the best chance to thrive.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Every child develops at their own pace, but some signs deserve attention. You do not need to panic, but you should not ignore repeated concerns either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Area<\/th>Ask for Help If Your Child\u2026<\/th><\/tr><\/thead>
Gestures<\/td>Does not wave, show, reach, point, or use gestures to communicate<\/td><\/tr>
Pointing<\/td>Does not point to ask for help or point to show interest by around 18 months<\/td><\/tr>
Imitation<\/td>Does not copy sounds, facial expressions, clapping, waving, or simple play actions<\/td><\/tr>
Response to Name<\/td>Rarely turns, looks, or reacts when you call their name<\/td><\/tr>
Words<\/td>Has no clear words by around 16\u201318 months or is not adding new sounds\/words over time<\/td><\/tr>
Understanding<\/td>Does not follow simple familiar instructions like \u201cgive me,\u201d \u201ccome here,\u201d or \u201csit down\u201d<\/td><\/tr>
Social Interest<\/td>Rarely joins simple games, avoids shared play, or shows limited interest in people<\/td><\/tr>
Regression<\/td>Loses words, gestures, imitation, eye contact, or social interest they previously had<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

One sign alone does not confirm a delay or autism. But if you notice several signs together, slow progress over time, or any loss of skills, speak with your child\u2019s pediatrician and ask whether developmental screening or early intervention support is needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A note about autism screening: Not pointing, not imitating, limited gestures, reduced response to name, or limited social interest can sometimes appear in children who need further developmental evaluation. These signs do not automatically mean autism. However, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends general developmental screening at 9, 18, and 30 months, and autism-specific screening at 18 and 24 months. If you are concerned, ask your pediatrician about screening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If limited pointing, imitation, response to name, and social interest appear together, our autism checklist<\/a> can help you prepare better questions for your pediatrician.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simple Activities to Encourage Pointing, Imitation, and Early Speech<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You do not need expensive toys or formal teaching to support early communication. Babies and toddlers learn best through short, playful, repeated moments with real people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Choose one or two activities below and repeat them during daily routines. Do not pressure your child to perform. Model the action, pause, wait, and celebrate any attempt to look, reach, copy, gesture, or make a sound.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some easy, playful ways to get started:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Narrate Your Daily Activities<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Talk during simple routines like dressing, bathing, eating, and cleaning up. Use short phrases that match what your child sees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Examples:<\/p>\n\n\n\n